i really don't understand why she just cannot put herself onto other people's shoes... really very upset seeing her talking back, being so rude, not knowing her limits, not studying, not trying to at least finish her sec sch....... why is she always thinking of playing.... having fun..... going with the trend...... all of us are always so worried about her... so concern about her but she just don't understand....... really hope that someone or something can make an impact on her to let her learn & understand what we meant is good for her... sometimes i hope that the friends she mixed around her are all motivating her to study & be good but........ i rather i'm her... though i'm lazy, i have lots of weaknesses... but at least i know how to put myself into people's shoes....... i don't understand why she always know how to talk about others instead of herself first.... i always believe that one day she will be the best person... cos i knew that she's more clever than me.. if i can do anything to help her, i will.... even if it's death......... god please help her.........